Regards HIV transmission - #9132

Hi Shashank, Thanks for reaching out. I understand that you’re feeling anxious about this, so let’s break it down and clear things up. HIV Transmission Risk from Oral Sex (Blowjob) • The Risk: The risk of HIV transmission through receiving a blowjob (where you’re the one receiving) is extremely low, almost negligible, because saliva does not transmit HIV. • If You Performed Oral Sex (gave a blowjob): There’s a slightly higher risk if there are open sores, bleeding gums, or cuts in the mouth, but even then, it’s considered low risk. Your HIV Test on Day 8 (21st March): You tested very early. The HIV 4th generation test (if that’s what you took) is reliable from 14 days onward and becomes more accurate after 28 days. Since you tested at 8 days, I recommend testing again at 28 days and 90 days to be fully sure. Partner’s Symptoms and HIV: HIV symptoms, if they appear, usually show up 2 to 4 weeks after exposure, but many people with HIV remain symptom-free for years. So, your partner’s lack of symptoms isn’t enough to confirm her HIV status. Next Steps: 1. Stay Calm: Your risk seems very low, especially if there were no visible cuts, blood, or sores. 2. Retesting: Take another HIV 4th generation test at 28 days for more accuracy and again at 90 days for confirmation. 3. Consider Full STI Screening: If you’re worried, you could also test for other STIs like syphilis, gonorrhea, or herpes, which can be transmitted through oral sex. I know the anxiety can be tough, but based on your situation, the chance of HIV transmission is very low. Stay calm and retest at the right time to ease your mind.